If you're not planning to hire a wedding planner, you'll need to be slightly more organized than the average bride. This doesn't mean you have to be a high maintenence one, though--there are totally fuss-free ways to plan a wedding this way.
We've rounded them up here so you can go back to being that totally *chill* bride we know you are.
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Make a wedding website
This is purely for the purpose of centralizing all the information for guests (and even vendors can use it too!). You don't need a 500-word essay on your love story--you just need the addresses, times, hotel names, all the relevant information so you can field any and all requests (that would normally come in to your planner) to the website.
We like Wedding Wire and Appy Couple, but honestly you could use something basic like The Knot.
READ MORE: How To Create A Killer Wedding Website
Have vendors do research for you
Don't get sucked into the abyss of Pinterest for every single thing--you can't suddenly become an expert on lighting and flowers and songs that get people on the dancefloor. Let your vendors do the work for you! Ask them to come prepared for your meetings so you can simply approve or deny their suggestions. You don't need to plan every detail--that's their area of expertise. You will drive yourself insane if you try to do all that work.
READ MORE: Have vendors do research for you
Make a day-of plan
Your day-of plan should be solid, and should involve enlisting the help of your bridesmaids, parents, groomsmen and any generous-feeling family members that have offered to help. It takes a village! Let someone else handle tips, usher guests, answer guest questions, hand out favors, etc. These are things your planner would do, so if you're skipping a planner someone that isn't you will need to do them.
READ MORE: 6 Things Brides Forget To Do The Morning Of Their Wedding
